Codependency is a world-wide disease. It erodes your self-esteem, drains your energy and leaves you profoundly unhappy. Yet you feel powerless to change it. I can feel your pain. After years of living with the distress, I finally see the shimmering light at the end of the tunnel. And the cure to that is not independence. Ironically, it is through […]
We all want to keep our relationships sound and intact so that someone loves, caresses and cares for us, and we do the same for them. However, many relations fail and fall apart, hurting both people. You might think the one who does the breaking up stays untouched, but separation inflicts pain on anyone. Infidelity, codependency, lack of communication, money […]
If there is one thing that we all want, it is love. Humans are relational creatures wired for connection, and love is the basis of all relationships and connections. We tend to think love exits mainly in romantic relationships or among close family members—an “I love you” from your partner or words of support encouragement from your parents. But love […]
You had a fight with your partner. For the second time in a week. You curl up on the floor. Tears roll down your cheeks. Alone. Misunderstood. Abandoned. Unloved. You have done everything to love and to give. Why can’t he see it? Why can’t he understand it? Why does he keep inflicting pain on you? You’re tired of suffering, […]
What are twin flames? Why do they exist? Do twin flame relationships serve different purposes from others? Are they all fairytale-like romances? Materials devoted to this subject are abundant and each has a different interpretation. I would like to offer you my version, but like all other posts, it is merely one account of the story—leave it if it doesn’t […]
When relationships fail, we often point the finger at the other person and blame them for being unloving, absent, disinterested, or controlling. However, if you can be honest and ask yourselves the question “Would I date myself”, would you say yes? If you say no, what makes you repulsed by the idea of dating yourself? I have my fair share […]
The spiritual community talks about unconditional love all the time. What is it then, and how do you love unconditionally? Is all love unconditional?